Yep you read it right we were visited by a really cute lizard. I say cute cause it was tiny and did not run across my foot. Otherwise it would have been a dead lizard!
My mom is in town right now!! So exciting she is helping us decorate the house. Hayden is so happy to have her here. He was so excited when he realized day two she was still here.
We finally got Hayden his swing set. Mike is in the process of putting it up. It will accommodate his therapy plat form swing and the Ikea soft swing! Yay!!! We opted for a papasan chair in his room because of renting and lack of support in the ceiling we couldn't hang up the other swing. We have just recently learned how much the boy loves trampolines. We knew he loved to jump but he would always just watch other people jump on a trampoline. Not any more!! They had one set up at the play scape store. He went right to it and started jumping all by himself. That will be our next purchase. Side note: I think I want my own papasan chair...wow is that comfy!
Texas is beautiful but it just doesn't feel like home...its been really hard to meet people. I all but had to give a blood sample to join a moms group and then found out it really wasn't for me. The kids were too young for Hayden. I guess I was pretty spoiled when on the first week of preschool in Harper Woods I met two moms and we are still friends. I would give anything to be able to be back at our play group again. I miss that socialization so much. Ohhh what I wouldn't give for a coffee night or applesbees with a friend. Ok no more talk about that..tearing up! Ok so its not all bad I have been out with Deanna for a girls day and we had a blast. Thank God for Deanna! I'll get there...right? I'm nice...I'll meet people...lol
On the up side Hayden is really doing great in school. I have no issues at all with him going in the class room. He goes to the library every week...not sure he's real quiet in there but he goes. When I pick him up from school you can hear him talking the whole way down the hall. "Mamma see Baylee!" Here are some of of Hayden's new phrases..."Dude" (yep daddy taught him that one)... "Mommy not nice"..."That is not ok"...."how about?" (He looks int he fridge and say "How about...."
XOXOXO
Tina
Monday, April 26, 2010
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Texas up date!
Most of you will be getting this letter in the mail with our change of address cards..yep I cheated but this pretty much sums it up for now. I did add a little bit to it so its not the same. I'll give you more next week...promise!
First of all we want to start by saying thank you so much to everyone who came to our going away party. We are truly blessed to have such wonderful family and friends. What a great night. I hope you all had a great time. We would also like to thank everyone for your love and support with our move. Your encouragement has meant the world to us.
Our first few weeks in Texas:
Hayden has had some adjustment issues. We have had to add a lot more sensory into his day. Everyday seems to be getting better the more we fall into our new routine. However the 5:30 wake up has not been fun (mostly for Mike). On the plus side we are getting naps again. His new school is great we love his teacher. The great thing about this district is that they really include special needs children with the general ed. It’s been great. Hayden attended his first pep rally and sat on the gym floor for over an hour and just watched what was going on. Next week he will be participating in preschool special Olympics. His new thing is the “freeze” game. He makes us do all these things (stand up, jump, sit) then we have to freeze. He puts his hands out and says “freeze” it’s so cute. He is talking a ton and we are getting some full sentences it’s been really exciting.
Mike: loves his new office. He comes home in a great mood everyday. He loves that you can get tacos from a trailer at midnight in the AutoZone parking lot. Every guys dream! He just replaced whitey runs with taco runs! When in Rome..
Tina: The weather has been great, a little muggy (dry heat yeah right) but great. We’re outside most days. There is so much to do. The shopping is tremendous…drool worthy really. It’s been great therapy! Bugs have not been much of a problem so far. Everyone has me so freaked out I can’t look at a fuzz without thinking it’s a bug. I do really miss biggby coffee…haven’t found anything like it here yet.
Baylee: Loves the weather and how many walks we go on now.
Zoë: Had a rough time at first. She stayed in her carrier for the first 2 days and wouldn’t come out. Then it took her a while before she would come out of the closet. She’s fine now and acting like a princess again.
Our new house is great! We are all getting a nice workout from the stairs!
The coolest thing in San Antonio (besides the Makris family of course) is by far Morgan’s Wonderland! Morgan’s Wonderland is a special needs amusement park, the only one in the world. We took Hayden and he loved it! His favorite things were the slides with rollers, sensory room and water guns. Everything is designed with Children with Special Needs in mind. Everything is wheel chair accessible and they only allow so many people into the park so that it is not too overwhelming. The best part is Hayden gets in free and anybody who comes with him only pays $5!
Thank you for all of your calls, emails, FB posts, texts, and cards over the last few weeks. They mean a lot to us and we appreciate them.
From the bottom of our hearts we love and miss everyone so much! We’ll see you in July! Feel free to come and stay any time, we’ve got the room!
Tina
First of all we want to start by saying thank you so much to everyone who came to our going away party. We are truly blessed to have such wonderful family and friends. What a great night. I hope you all had a great time. We would also like to thank everyone for your love and support with our move. Your encouragement has meant the world to us.
Our first few weeks in Texas:
Hayden has had some adjustment issues. We have had to add a lot more sensory into his day. Everyday seems to be getting better the more we fall into our new routine. However the 5:30 wake up has not been fun (mostly for Mike). On the plus side we are getting naps again. His new school is great we love his teacher. The great thing about this district is that they really include special needs children with the general ed. It’s been great. Hayden attended his first pep rally and sat on the gym floor for over an hour and just watched what was going on. Next week he will be participating in preschool special Olympics. His new thing is the “freeze” game. He makes us do all these things (stand up, jump, sit) then we have to freeze. He puts his hands out and says “freeze” it’s so cute. He is talking a ton and we are getting some full sentences it’s been really exciting.
Mike: loves his new office. He comes home in a great mood everyday. He loves that you can get tacos from a trailer at midnight in the AutoZone parking lot. Every guys dream! He just replaced whitey runs with taco runs! When in Rome..
Tina: The weather has been great, a little muggy (dry heat yeah right) but great. We’re outside most days. There is so much to do. The shopping is tremendous…drool worthy really. It’s been great therapy! Bugs have not been much of a problem so far. Everyone has me so freaked out I can’t look at a fuzz without thinking it’s a bug. I do really miss biggby coffee…haven’t found anything like it here yet.
Baylee: Loves the weather and how many walks we go on now.
Zoë: Had a rough time at first. She stayed in her carrier for the first 2 days and wouldn’t come out. Then it took her a while before she would come out of the closet. She’s fine now and acting like a princess again.
Our new house is great! We are all getting a nice workout from the stairs!
The coolest thing in San Antonio (besides the Makris family of course) is by far Morgan’s Wonderland! Morgan’s Wonderland is a special needs amusement park, the only one in the world. We took Hayden and he loved it! His favorite things were the slides with rollers, sensory room and water guns. Everything is designed with Children with Special Needs in mind. Everything is wheel chair accessible and they only allow so many people into the park so that it is not too overwhelming. The best part is Hayden gets in free and anybody who comes with him only pays $5!
Thank you for all of your calls, emails, FB posts, texts, and cards over the last few weeks. They mean a lot to us and we appreciate them.
From the bottom of our hearts we love and miss everyone so much! We’ll see you in July! Feel free to come and stay any time, we’ve got the room!
Tina
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Changing of the Guard!!
Hello Everyone!
I have officially taken over this blog. Sorry you will no longer get the matter of fact, eloquent, political posts you once got with Mike. I am much less proper and way more emotional than Mike. But hopefully I can find more time to update this more often.
So to update you all. We now have a house in San Antonio! We actually have a moving date. Well here's to hoping this was all just a dream and would go away. Can I just say that I am so scared to leave the support of my friends and family not to mention clean 3.5 bathrooms! I am however looking forward to the weather and new opportunities for our family. Praying that everyone comes to visit and I will probably be counting down the days until July when we fly back home.
When you have a child with special needs it is scary to lose your support network. I have the greatest family and some awesome friends. Its so nice to just make a call and get a break if I need it or have a friend to just hang out with and get away for an evening. I truly believe sometimes getting away makes me a better mom. Time to refresh and just get a little girl talk and of course dessert is usually involved. Now I know I will make new friends and establish a new support network we have already met some really nice people. It's just really hard to leave your mom and your sister when you are a woman. Mike and Hayden are probably going to breeze through this transition its me that's going to have the hard time....lol
Any way hope you don't mind the changing of the guard to much!!
Love,
Tina
I have officially taken over this blog. Sorry you will no longer get the matter of fact, eloquent, political posts you once got with Mike. I am much less proper and way more emotional than Mike. But hopefully I can find more time to update this more often.
So to update you all. We now have a house in San Antonio! We actually have a moving date. Well here's to hoping this was all just a dream and would go away. Can I just say that I am so scared to leave the support of my friends and family not to mention clean 3.5 bathrooms! I am however looking forward to the weather and new opportunities for our family. Praying that everyone comes to visit and I will probably be counting down the days until July when we fly back home.
When you have a child with special needs it is scary to lose your support network. I have the greatest family and some awesome friends. Its so nice to just make a call and get a break if I need it or have a friend to just hang out with and get away for an evening. I truly believe sometimes getting away makes me a better mom. Time to refresh and just get a little girl talk and of course dessert is usually involved. Now I know I will make new friends and establish a new support network we have already met some really nice people. It's just really hard to leave your mom and your sister when you are a woman. Mike and Hayden are probably going to breeze through this transition its me that's going to have the hard time....lol
Any way hope you don't mind the changing of the guard to much!!
Love,
Tina
Friday, October 23, 2009
October Update
It's been a long while since I've posted on this blog - and oh how things have changed in our lives. I truely can't believe that it's nearing the end of October. The year has just flown by.
Yesterday was October 22nd - X-Day........exactly two years ago we received my sons diagnosis of Fragile X Syndrome.
I sat down yesterday a bit and just reflected on what the last 2 years has meant. I still remember that frantic first few hours of finding out about Fragile X and "googling" it and just the shock and fear I felt. I still remember those first few months just not knowing what to do and just walking around day after day lost and confused.
We've come along way since then. Attended our first Fragile X International Conference, got involved with the Fragile X Association of Michigan, became a board member of FXAM and now a member of the Public Policy Committee for NFXF. Assisting in hosting the 12th International Conference in Dearborn, Michigan and attended my first FX Advocacy Day this year. Fragile X is a part of our lives - and we are not going to let it be a negative. We are going to fight everyday not just for our son but for all the children and adults who are facing this disease.
Everyday I am inspired. Hayden has come so far this year. In January we were really struggling to get even a few words - and today, he is just constantly talking. I can't tell you how many times a tear has come to my eye when I've heard a new word. His school, private speech classes, and therapy camps were just unbelievable this year. We still have some speech struggles - certain letters or sounds - but to hear your child say Momma & Dadda......I just can't think of a better sound.
Just a few weeks ago we went to Chicago to meet with a FX specialist - Dr Berry-Kravitz. The short of the appointment is that Hayden is developing right along the same lines as most children with Fragile X. He is ahead in some areas and behind in others but all-in-all she doesn't see any major areas to be concerned about. We also recently were at a fund raiser with Dr Paul Hagerman - another expert in FX - and he was very hopefuly on new therapies and drugs in the next 3 - 5 years. These are my heroes - these are the people who have dedicated their lives and research to helping others.
The biggest change in our lives, however, is going to happen at the end of March 2010. That is when we will be leaving Michigan and moving to San Antonio, Texas. As part of some changes at my company I was asked if I would be willing to relocate. After much (MUCH) discussion and consideration - we both thought for the betterment of my career, the potential opportunity for our family, and lets face it, here in Michigan, the opportunity to keep my job - this was probably something we should do. We've been to SA once to see the town, look at houses, see some schools - and we were very impressed. It's a beautiful place and has lots to offer not just for me and Tina, but for Hayden too.
We still have some things to work out - final place to live, school, stuff like that. Heading down there another time to look around again and try to finalize some things. One place that we found that is amazing is a theme park that is being built called Morgans Wonderland. This is the first theme park strictly dedicated to individuals with disabilities. Its motto is "A special place for our special friends". Opens early 2010 - so how perfect is that.
So needless to say the next 8 months or so is going to be crazy busy. Holidays, travel, and just the day-to day business that we already have. But I can't complain - life has blessed me with a beautiful and wonderful wife who is just the most amazing person I've ever met. With a son who I just can't put into words how much I love and who everyday inspires me.
Life is good.
God Bless.
Yesterday was October 22nd - X-Day........exactly two years ago we received my sons diagnosis of Fragile X Syndrome.
I sat down yesterday a bit and just reflected on what the last 2 years has meant. I still remember that frantic first few hours of finding out about Fragile X and "googling" it and just the shock and fear I felt. I still remember those first few months just not knowing what to do and just walking around day after day lost and confused.
We've come along way since then. Attended our first Fragile X International Conference, got involved with the Fragile X Association of Michigan, became a board member of FXAM and now a member of the Public Policy Committee for NFXF. Assisting in hosting the 12th International Conference in Dearborn, Michigan and attended my first FX Advocacy Day this year. Fragile X is a part of our lives - and we are not going to let it be a negative. We are going to fight everyday not just for our son but for all the children and adults who are facing this disease.
Everyday I am inspired. Hayden has come so far this year. In January we were really struggling to get even a few words - and today, he is just constantly talking. I can't tell you how many times a tear has come to my eye when I've heard a new word. His school, private speech classes, and therapy camps were just unbelievable this year. We still have some speech struggles - certain letters or sounds - but to hear your child say Momma & Dadda......I just can't think of a better sound.
Just a few weeks ago we went to Chicago to meet with a FX specialist - Dr Berry-Kravitz. The short of the appointment is that Hayden is developing right along the same lines as most children with Fragile X. He is ahead in some areas and behind in others but all-in-all she doesn't see any major areas to be concerned about. We also recently were at a fund raiser with Dr Paul Hagerman - another expert in FX - and he was very hopefuly on new therapies and drugs in the next 3 - 5 years. These are my heroes - these are the people who have dedicated their lives and research to helping others.
The biggest change in our lives, however, is going to happen at the end of March 2010. That is when we will be leaving Michigan and moving to San Antonio, Texas. As part of some changes at my company I was asked if I would be willing to relocate. After much (MUCH) discussion and consideration - we both thought for the betterment of my career, the potential opportunity for our family, and lets face it, here in Michigan, the opportunity to keep my job - this was probably something we should do. We've been to SA once to see the town, look at houses, see some schools - and we were very impressed. It's a beautiful place and has lots to offer not just for me and Tina, but for Hayden too.
We still have some things to work out - final place to live, school, stuff like that. Heading down there another time to look around again and try to finalize some things. One place that we found that is amazing is a theme park that is being built called Morgans Wonderland. This is the first theme park strictly dedicated to individuals with disabilities. Its motto is "A special place for our special friends". Opens early 2010 - so how perfect is that.
So needless to say the next 8 months or so is going to be crazy busy. Holidays, travel, and just the day-to day business that we already have. But I can't complain - life has blessed me with a beautiful and wonderful wife who is just the most amazing person I've ever met. With a son who I just can't put into words how much I love and who everyday inspires me.
Life is good.
God Bless.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Fragile X Awareness Day
Today, July 22nd 2009, is Fragile X Awareness Day.
If you read this blog or know me - you know how Fragile X has affected my family. But it's just not my family - it's hundreds of thousands around this great country of ours.
Please visit fragilex.org or fxam.org to learn more about Fragile X and how you can help support research to find a cure.
Tina, Hayden, and I are blessed with the most amazing family and friends. In the past, almost two years, since we received our diagnosis the support and prayers we received is absolutely amazing.
We've learned alot about what Fragile X is, why it has affected us, what we can do to treat it - and I think back and remember asking myself - why me? why us? I know someday I will get that answer. I also know that I need to make the best of everything that comes my (our) way - and I realize everyday how amazing of a blessing Hayden has been into my life.
Sometimes it crosses into my mind "if I only knew ahead of time".....but what if I did know ahead of time....Hayden would never have been a part of my life. So many amazing people I have met would not be part of my life. The person I have become, the strengths I have developed, the passion in my heart that I have would not be part of my life.
It's a struggle, not everyday, but it is a struggle and I know I am blessed to not have some of the struggles so many others do. But I don't regret my life, I don't wish it away, I wouldn't change a thing - because I wouldn't want to not know Hayden.
On National Fragile X Awareness day I have had so many emotions run through me. I really can't explain any of them. I'm actually having a hard time finishing this post - which if you know me, I'm not one to shy away from talking or writing.............
............. God Bless !
Thursday, July 9, 2009
FXAM.ORG
Just finished most of the upgrades and updates to the NEW Fragile X Association of Michigan website. Check it out.
www.fxam.org
(still working on getting our home computer fixed - hopefully in the next week or two)
God Bless
www.fxam.org
(still working on getting our home computer fixed - hopefully in the next week or two)
God Bless
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Computer Crash
Hello all - I know it's been a while for updates...and it might be a little longer. Our computer has crashed and we are trying to save it AND all our pictures. So it might still be a little while longer for an update.
Hope you all are doing well - and have a wonderful 4th of July holiday weekend.
Be safe & God Bless
Hope you all are doing well - and have a wonderful 4th of July holiday weekend.
Be safe & God Bless
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